Friday, September 11, 2015

The Calm (well, Craziness) Before the Next Big Thing

Wednesday, July 22: Brian headed back to work. He worked 2.5 days, fighting a cold, but trying to get in as much time as he could. He also got his German night statue settled into his office: 
 Rachel found interesting uses for my flight eye mask:
 And Rachel also decided to put her toy giraffe on time-out.
 And in between all that, I was frantically trying to finish up camping preparations for the next week,

un-pack, keep life going, get together with family that was in town, and still find time to celebrate Pioneer Day with friends. We failed on the last two (although technically, one of those fails wasn't totally my fault.) So, we had our own mini-celebration Pioneer Day Celebration on Sunday night with Michael, Ethan, Brian, and I. We woke Michael up to light the fireworks that we had purchased in hopes of attending our neighborhood party. He was so asleep! He kept trying to curl back up in the blankets, but I picked him up and carried him outside. When Brian lit the first one, Michael freaked out, and I had to reassure him that he was okay. After being out there for 20 minutes, he suddenly perked up, looked around, and said, "How did I get out here? What are we doing?" Apparently, he'd been asleep that whole time, even though his eyes were open. He joined in the fun after that.



We put Michael and then ourselves in bed, ready to start the next crazy/fun thing in the morning!

Thursday, September 3, 2015

Reunited!

As soon as I woke up, showered, and dressed on Wednesday, July 22, I headed up to Ogden to get my babies. I've always been good at letting my kids go. I don't have a problem leaving them with sitters, or even over night with family. I probably would have been just fine with a week. But, 17 days was just too long! I missed them like crazy, my heart often catching in my throat when we skyped them,  and I had to force myself to not go to Ogden as soon as we landed in Salt Lake. I couldn't get there fast enough. 

When I pulled up to Chelsea's house, Michael came running outside, and Rachel was there too. I hugged them. I kissed them. Michael was so excited to tell me everything. Rachel was too. Michael showed me how he had learned to pump on the swing while I was gone. I gave the Chelsea and her kids the presents we got for them, and they were all excited. I didn't stay long--I'm pretty sure Chelsea was ready to have her house to herself again. Chelsea and I loaded the car, and I tried to express just how grateful I was to her for watching over my most precious treasures while I was gone. They were in the best possible hands, and I was so grateful. 

We headed to Lehi to have lunch with Brian. Michael talked my ear off. I only remember him saying one thing, "Mom, I'm glad that you're the one that picked me up because I missed you the most." Sometimes, I wonder if I'm enough as a mom. That day, I knew. It's not that he doesn't love his dad. It's just that I'm there for everything. And he missed that. He missed me. 


Adobe had food trucks that day, so that's what we ate. The kids were SO happy to see their dad, and it was so nice to have our family all back together.  
Towards the end of our trip, things had started to take a toll on Rachel. She is not a cuddler, but she was more clingy with Chelsea, missing being held. In the weeks that followed our return, she was extra clingy and would kind of panic if I walked away without her.

Michael and Rachel were so happy to be back at their house, in their beds, and with their toys. At times like that, I always think, "Dorothy had it right; there is no place like home."

Europe Part 7: Germany

Sunday, July 19: By this point, the journey was wearing on everyone. We woke up early, ate breakfast, and then once again hit the road, heading for Rothenburg, Germany. On the way, we stopped at Dachau Concentration Camp.
 There aren't words to describe this place. It is sacred. It is harrowing.
 It was sobering seeing the footprints of the all the building barracks. Suddenly numbers that I had heard and places that I read about took on a whole new reality.
 I put Brian in charge of the camera. I didn't feel like taking pictures of this place. I didn't feel like talking at this place. Too often, I had to hold back tears.
 Especially back in here. Nestled in these beautiful trees is a crematorium and a gas chamber. It is also home to several mass graves and a beautiful, winding path that was once stained with blood. And it was a strange contradiction. I had always pictured concentration camps as wastelands, places completely devoid of beauty. But the area surrounding the camp was covered in lush foliage and surrounded by singing birds. Yet, between 1933 and 1945 it was a place of unspeakable horror.
 It was interesting to see the progression/changes in the barracks as the war dragged on. At first, prisoners had more room to sit and converse.

 But by the end, the "beds" were just three-level planks for people to sleep in piles because the camp was so over crowded.
Of our two Sundays in Europe, this is the one that felt the most like Sunday. After Dachau, we headed to a restaurant for lunch. While waiting to commence our journey again, it was easy for me to want to pull out my scriptures and drown myself in the goodness of God. My soul was starving and harrowed up after Dachau, and I felt comfort from the scriptures, despite the throngs of high schoolers being, well, high schoolers.

Soon we were on our way, and after several hours, we arrived in Rothenburg. Chelsea loves Rothenburg. She has a huge painting of Rothenburg on her mantle. She was crazy jealous and excited for us to be able to visit this city. It was easy to see why she loves it so much. Rothenburg is charming, historic, quaint, and exciting. It's like stepping back in time. It is an incredibly preserved medieval city.




 After checking into our ancient hotel and eating our dinner, we went on the famous Night Watchman's Tour. He was hysterical! Best tour of our whole trip!
  
 Monday, July 20: We had breakfast and then headed out to explore some more. We walked around the city on the city wall:
And took lots of pictures for Chelsea:




 Then, we did a little shopping and checked out the Criminal Justice Museum. Some of the things were horrifying--I can't believe the things that people will do to each other--but other things were hilarious, like these shame masks they used to make people wear:
 We spent a little time in the stocks:

We had a schnitzel sandwich for lunch, helped with the band concert, checked out the Katy Wohlfahrt Christmas shops, watched the city cheer for our band and our favorite director, getting an encore after "The Stars and Stripes Forever". Our regret was that we missed the final choir concert. We heard it was just amazing. We finished up our shopping, making sure that we got something for all those folks back home that made this trip for us possible. Then, after dinner, we got to work packing, hoping that we were okay on our weight. We met with Kirt and Julie to discuss the next days' flight home. Kirt, a human scale, checked our bag weights. Then, we headed to an old barn for the final, farewell party. Each bus performed a skit recapping our trip together. It was a great way to end things. Our city host and friend, Dave Fulmer, pleaded with the students to keep being good and not take the approach that "Hey, what can they do to me now?" He said the kindest, sweetest, and most well-deserved things about Kirt and Julie, and I got to join all the students in the European style way of asking for an encore (a hearty synchronized clap) to show appreciation for all the work they did in making this trip possible. 

Tuesday, July 21: We woke around 3:20 a.m., showered, finished the last minute packing, and loaded our luggage onto the bus. We ate breakfast, and then headed to the Frankfurt airport. Ours was the last flight to leave, so we waited to make sure the earlier flights got checked in before we did. Check-in was a little rough. One of our travelers, a Mexican Citizen who is an American Citizen, forgot to bring her VISA with her, and they almost didn't let her fly with us. It was a headache, and almost proved to be the end of Julie, but they finally got it sorted. We said goodbye to Kirt and Julie, who went on to explore Austria for another 2 weeks, and began our last leg of our journey: the flights home! We did roll calls 2 or three times to make sure that everyone was accounted for and on the airplane. We watched movies, ate, and slept. Eight hours later, we began our decent into America, and I got a good look at the Atlantic and the Coast. 

Everyone was excited to land in New York and be back in America. Those who hadn't paid for an international plan were stoked to have data and coverage again. We got off the plane and headed into customs. We wanted to kiss the ground. I don't think Brian realized just how American he was until we landed in New York. We again had the logistical/frustrating mess of trying to make sure such a large group ended up where they were supposed to go, and we ran into more trouble with that one traveler over her VISA. They were going to put her in detainment. We all cheered when she made it back through security to join us on our flight to Salt Lake. A couple of girls in our flight group wanted a picture with us. They were some of the best girls in our group, so even though we looked exhausted, we agreed. 
Finally, it was time to board our final plane. Everyone got settled and the plane started pulling away from the jet bridge and heading to the runway when we came to a stop. The pilot informed us that the entire airport was shut-down for a V.I.P. He then directed us to look out our window to see Air Force One take off. It was another hour before we got moving again. By this point, I was tired, cranky, and super angry that they whole airport had to shut down so President Obama could take off. I mean, aren't airports already secure enough? Mr. President, you cost me an hour of sleep! (And I found out later that he was in New York to see a play).  I was exhausted enough that I fell asleep waiting for the plane to take off, but I woke up in time to enjoy take-off. The flight went quickly since I slept for most of it. We arrived in Salt Lake just before midnight, MST. After making sure that all the over-sized instruments and items made it on the trailer and that all our students had rides, we headed out. Ethan kindly picked us all up again. We made it back to our house by one, and to bed by two (I had to clean poor Spike's tank--those vacation feeders did a number on it, and I felt so bad for him).  We were so grateful to be back in the land of air-conditioning, free water at dinner, and free public restrooms. Our trip was amazing--once in a lifetime--but we decided it was the perfect length of time because we were ready to be home. 

Europe Part 6: Venice

Saturday, July 18: We got up SO early to head to Venice so that we could have 5 hours there before coming back to Seefeld for bed. The drive was tiring (it's hard to sleep sitting up!) and it was crazy hot and humid, but it was worth every bit of stress, sweat, and sleep deprivation. I took 3 Italian classes at BYU back in 2004 and 2005, and since that time, I'd been dreaming of going to Italy. I was almost as giddy as Kirt was, but not quite (Kirt served his mission in Rome, and he was glowing with excitement about getting to speak Italian).

Everyone who had been to Venice in July had warned me about the heat and humidity. I knew that our day in Venice was one of our uniform days. I got permission from Julie to wear a tan skirt instead of pants, because I knew from experience (I arrived in the hot, humid South for my 18-month mission in August) that humidity+heat+me=not good things. I knew I would be a grumpy, sick, mess if I didn't figure out a way to stay cool. So, armed in my skirt and light white sweater (versus the 3/4 inch button up shirt I bought just for this occasion), we headed on our adventure. We ate our sack lunch while we waited for our boat into Venice. Here we are, about to embark before we completely melted:
 Here I am on the boat to Venice:
 Brian and I as we approached Venice:

 It was incredibly hot and humid, and I felt just like I was back on my mission (the cardigan and skirt certainly helped with that!). But the worst part of Venice wasn't the heat; it was hearing everyone complain about the heat. I just wanted to yell at all of them, "Yes, but we're in VENICE! The streets are made of WATER! Who cares how hot it is." I mean, this is what we got to enjoy for those few precious hours:
 And this: 
And this:
 We took a walking tour of Venice. This time, we got radios so we could hear our guide. This was awesome--except that sometimes we weren't sure what she was pointing at. Oh well, it was still amazing. We toured St. Mark's Basilica, the place where the body of St. Mark (as in the writer of one of the four Gospels in the New Testament), is supposedly buried. It is quite amazing.
 After seeing St. Mark's, we went to see a glass blowing demonstration:
 Which was pretty amazing. Venice is famous for its glass. Kirt and Julie got me a necklace and matching earrings made from the famous Murano glass for my birthday.
 Then, we wandered around trying to find a Gondola
 And we got to go on a real Gondola ride in Venice. It was awesome!



 The gondolas are owned by the city (or just one company that the city contracts with), and to be a gondolier, you pretty much have to be born into a family of gondoliers. It's a tough job navigating these long boats through the canals of Venice, something we didn't appreciate until we went for our ride.
 After our ride, we did a little exploring/shopping. We got Michael an "Italia" jacket. We didn't think he'd wear lederhosen.
 And then headed back to St. Marks to hear the choir sing. Not every musical group gets invited to sing in St. Marks, and it is a big honor that our choir was invited to sing two numbers. It was amazing.
All too soon, it was time to head back to our boat and the mainland. We must return, but perhaps not in July or August. Maybe October. Or April. (It was so hot that by the time we got back to the bus and I took my passport out of my concealed waist wallet, my passport was warped due to sweat. TMI? ) Kirt and I wished that we had more time there. I think everyone else was just happy to get on the air-conditioned bus. We drove back to Seefeld, seeing hundreds of castles and stunning views of the Alps on the way. When we arrived in town, a local opened a bratwurst stand just for us. It was really late, and nothing else was open, so the gesture was most kind. I think we did room checks that night. I'm not sure though. Either way, it was a late night with another early morning the next day. But again, TOTALLY WORTH IT! I loved Venice!