Wednesday, June 10, 2026

April Part 5: Ordinary Days

On many an afternoon in April, I would find Michael asleep either here or in his room. He has early morning weights, lots of football practice, and a busy social calendar. It's a lot of work to be 16. 
Brian read the book Project Hail Mary, so we went to go see the movie (on Good Friday) with our friends Annika and Royce. It was a great movie and surprisingly clean, a very rare combination these days. 


Proof that Michael is home sometimes (he's gone so much!) 
After donating our old table to DI, we found this on the receipt, written by Gabe. "Yay, Tyson, Yay!"
Wow, April was a really good month for spotting Michael at home. Here he is again! 
We rate the wind we get by how far the wreath travels, whether or not the rug was disturbed, and if our chairs got blown off the porch. This was apparently a light wind, but we still documented it with a photo. 
Heatless curls--a new method taught to me by Rachel. 
Brian and I went to the temple to do sealings, and we took some names that Gabe actually found several months ago. The bonus of the night? Brian's mission president was our sealer. It was an amazing night. 

Brian finally got the drawers installed for our next biggest pain-point cupboard. It's so nice to find our baking dishes faster and without standing on our heads! 


We also did some organizing of the kids craft room. We got bins and this shelf for our filament
And a new desk for the printers. 
We learned about how Moses had to hold his rod up above his head for Israel to triumph in battle and how hard that must have been and why he needed support. 

I pulled out a project I started a year ago and tried out my new walking foot on my new machine. 
I finally finished this quilt. I made Brian take a picture of my because I liked my hair/hat combo. 

Then I wondered why I was posing with my iron when I don't really like ironing. 
Michael had prom on April 25, and I made his corsage again. This time, I kept it to a normal size. 
It fit in the box. 

Michael's flag football team got to play in Rice Eccles Stadium for some unknown reason. It cost $30/40ish dollars for Brian to go watch him. I couldn't go because I had a big regional council meeting for my calling at church. Apparently, they got stomped, but hopefully they enjoyed playing in the stadium. 

After the game, Michael came home and got ready for prom. I missed sending him off, due to my meeting, but Brian got a picture. It's a bummer being the boy's mom because you're at the mercy of your son or your son's date's mom for photos. I watched all my friends posting photos of their girls Instagram and lamented that I didn't get to see him or his date. 
Michael did show me the next day at church (the first time I saw him post prom), and excitedly told me all the things from the night before. He had a great time. This is Maude, and apparently her mom's name is also Devri, or Devry.  I'm a little sad I didn't get to meet her. 

Brian got him to change his shoes for the dance in between this photo and the one he took at the house. Thanks, Brian! 

Every now and then, we provide a welcoming committee for when Brian comes home. Or maybe we were just waiting for him to pick us up? 
Rachel took private acting lessons this semester, and she had a recital at the end of April. Brian was in San Jose, so he missed it, but I sent him a recording. Technology is so handy sometimes. Here's Rachel with her teacher, Caroline. 
We got a little more snow in April and a hard frost, which killed most of the blossoms on the fruit trees. At least it was pretty. 
Brian went to San Jose for a conference, and he did a great job presenting. He's starting to get a lot of attention throughout the organization. We're trying to figure out if that is good or bad. Afterwards, some of the leaders from the conference reached out and said that his presentation was the most talked about out of any of them. One person even told people that if they can only listen to one talk, they should listen to Brian's ("the guy with the red beard"--what?! Brian doesn't have a red beard! It reminds me of when people used to ask my mom where she got her red hair and she'd tell them from her daddy's red whiskers, only I don't think Brian's whiskers are red, but whatever.)


My neighbor Katie and I take turns carpooling our kids to Flag Football. She is also the primary chorister in one of the wards in our stake, so we've gotten to be friends. She invited me on a walk and introduced me to a beautiful trail near our house. 

 I felt like I reached the end of April by the skin of my teeth. Maycember always starts in the last few weeks of April, and we officially were in survival mode, once again. 

April Part 4: Gabe's Birthday

Gabe turned 10 in April. TEN! Double digits! Adult Disney ticket age. My BABY!

Michael's schedule is a bit crazy with football practice between his sevens team and flag football team, so we went out to celebrate Gabe together early. Brian and Gabe were running a bit late, so Michael only got to stay for a few minutes to wish Gabe a happy birthday before needing to leave and go to practice. Gabe picked Chubby's for food. 


Before he went to bed, we took our final picture of him as a nine-year-old. 


We were tired, so we only taped up some streamers over his door to make it special. 
He got to open some presents before school. 


I love how even Gracie is invested in his present opening. 
I got him a Stitch shoulder buddy when we were at Disneyland. 

The big present with custom stamped wrapping paper (custom meaning we wrapped it in white paper and I started using my pathetic collection of stamps to make it look more festive) was a 3D printer. Michael responded with, "So we're just handing these out now?!" Apparently he's wanted a 3D printer for years, but I never got the message. 
I took Gabe Costa Vida for lunch and ate with him. 
Gabe was so excited to have his own 3D printer. We were hoping that this would free up the family one for more projects, but somehow, he was still dominating the other one as well. 
We 3D printed a stitch to be his cake topper, and it turned out to be quite large. 




The next day, we had a birthday party for Gabe. He really wanted to do bumper cars, so we ended up going to Boondocks. It got a little tricky inviting his friends because I didn't get the invitations made before spring break, so he couldn't get the invites to his school friends 3 days before the party. Oops! I feel like I really dropped the ball on this birthday, but hopefully Gabe didn't notice. 
We had two party people attend us and try to lead games at the tables while we waited for pizza. The kids got unlimited drinks and we all felt pretty VIP. 

Gabe opened presents. 
Awesome books from James. 
Sweets and an RC from Jackson. 
A Stitch squishmallow from one of his school friends. 


Legos from his bestie Max. 

He got to blow out a candle on a cupcake. 
And then the boys were off to enjoy all the attractions, starting with Go-carts. The weather was pretty crummy, and I was worried they'd close the outdoor attractions, but thankfully they were open. 


Bumper boats came next. 

I think after the boats they came inside to get warm, do laser tag, and then head back outside to do the Ropes Course. 

A couple of kids didn't have the right shoes, so they had to watch the ropes' course. 

There was more time on the go-carts. 


They did the 4D theater and maybe another turn at laser tag before we had to call it a night and go home. 

On Sunday, we had Lea and Shayne and Nana and Papa over for dinner. We had strawberry shortcake for dessert, and something delicious for dinner. 

A week after his family party, I finally remembered to take his picture with his stuffed Stich. Here's Gabe at 1 month old with it, 
and him at 10 years with it. 
Gabe is so smart, and is for sure going to be our tallest kid (he is currently around 58 inches tall). He is incredibly observant and has a memory like a steel trap. He told me that he wants to be the kindest person in the world someday, and he continues to work on keeping his big feelings under control, and he's made lots of progress. We're so proud of him, and no matter how big or how fast he grows, he'll always be my baby.